Okay, so the middle schoolers, I get it we've all been there the first "real" boyfriend, usually doesn't happen till around 9th grade, when you're in high school, but it's happening younger now apparently. Anyways, I understand you think you're in love and all that fun stuff, and you think he or she is your "first love" but it's all puppy love! When you get older you'll realize you really didn't love that person the way you thought you did. You're a child, you shouldn't be having sex, do you even know the risks?! You could get pregnant if you aren't being safe, and even condoms aren't 100% safe, you need to wait till you for sure know you want to be with this person for the rest of your life, otherwise you have the chance of getting pregnant at a very young age or even getting an STD, that is some serious stuff! And if you are seeing an "older" person that could be considered rape. If you go around humping everyone, you're going to make it seem like you have "daddy issues" but I'm not here to preach to you about this stuff, you're parents can tell you all about this interesting stuff!
Unhealthy relationships!
I see girls treating there man like shit all the time, girl you are not a damn princess, he is not your slave! If you want to be treated like a queen, you better treat him like a king. If that boy bends over backwards for you and is the sweetest guy ever to you, don't you think you better wake up and smell the roses? You have an awesome man, who move the world for you and you treat him like last weeks garbage you forgot to put out. Get over yourself, girl! I know a girl who had been dating this guy for 2 years I believe and he was thinking of applying for a job 30 minutes away. She broke up with him. He said "the shitty part is I haven't even applied for the job yet!" Come to find out two days later she already had a new "boy toy" when he confronted her about why she really broke up with him she cried. Like, hi, don't play the poor me card, you did this to him! Don't cheat on your boyfriend of two years and expect him to be happy about it! This is the same girl, I don't like around my boyfriend....We had gone out for our anniversary and it just happened to be the restaurant she worked out, she had candy and of course had to bring it over to MY boyfriend, stood their for a good 15 minutes just staring at him....he thought it was normal....She didn't even look at me, or say a word to me, I realize you "were there first" but I am now his number one you don't have to like me sweet heart it's not your choice who he is with. Don't be coming to my table and stare at my man and expect me not to mind.
Now boys, I realize your lives are video games, cars, money, bitches. One we aren't your "bitches" you don't want us treating you like shit, don't treat us that way. Ya know the saying "Treat me like a queen and I'll treat you like a king. Treat me like a game, and I'll show you how it's played" We aren't kidding! We didn't just make that up cause it sounds cool or it's catchy! I understand you love video games a lot, but once you get a girlfriend you better realize you only play that when she's busy, sleeping, or with you! Or you could learn to double task and text while you play. No girl wants to feel like a video game is more important than she is. Your car is your baby...right...Well guess what, that girl you asked out 2 years ago, she's also your baby, if your car is broken, fix it. But don't make plans with her and then be like "oh sorry, gotta fix my car" or "I can't hang out tonight, sorry I'm helping my buddy put in his subs." If you tell that girl you can hang out, you better hang out with that girl! Your buddy can put his subs in without you, that girl is you're priority, no matter how long you've been together, she isn't going to wait around forever. If a girl just wants your money, kick her to the curb. It's normal for her to say "awe, I want a ring" but if she says "hey, can have about 50bucks, I need to buy some new clothes" bitch be trippin. If she doesn't say "buy that for me" or "can I have some money" she is obviously not in the relationship for your doe. If you're busy and can't text her back, you need to tell her, "hey, I can't talk right now, but I'll text you when I'm done" just let her know you're busy, otherwise she'll worry that you're hurt or cheating, for me it's more of "omg is he hurt?" but then I realize he'll be fine, and I just need to give him time to do whatever he may be doing. And GIRLS DON'T TEXT HIM EVERY TWO SECONDS! Wanna know how to push him away? Be clingy, works every time.
Anyways just treat each other like royalty, and don't try to dictate what each other do. If your girlfriend or boyfriend wants to go out with his friends, don't say they can't, they're life does not revolve around you, they need some time to relax and if you tell them what to do they won't want to be with you much longer.
I think that's all I have to say :)
Byeeeeeeeee ♥
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